Name: Thursday, November 27, 2008
Major Accident
REST IN PEACE WAILING!!This post is extremely heart wrenching. I hope it'll never occur to anyone of my friends.
Today is the cremention of Wailing. Her funeral lasted only for a day which was yesterday. She is twenty this year, unable to celebrate her 21st next year. She was a friend.
The Accident...
I visited her in Changi Hospitial on tuesday that was the last day. SHe was in ICU.
Few days ago, together with two of her friends, they went riding. She was the last one, Hence a car knocked her down from behind making her fly then landed on the floor with a huge impact resulting in brain head as called permanent brain damage. Her helmet dropped in the process causing the damage. Her heart was still thumping strongly but all her other organs including her brain which was not working anymore. She died that night on tuesday. It was really sad! Words could not desribe it.
The news was reported in the chinese newspaper.
Friends, take care! Life is precious. You never know you might not live tomorrow. Bike riding is extremely dangerous!
sign~
3:19 PM
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Bus drivers!
I salute BUS DRIVERS!!!I mean they really contribute a lot to the society. This ain't an easy job. After numerous of test then only you can pass. Handling day to day passengers who board the bus. Those passengers just do not care about the bus driver's existance. They only want to get to their destination. I see when drivers greet the passengers, some just ignore them, tapped their cards and walk away while the others responsed to the driver.Like HELLO!! Drivers are also human being, they ought to be treated as one too. They often have to clear up people's litter at the end of the day. I can't understand why nowadays human beings are so inconsiderate! Right.. You pay for the bus fare, but that amount you paid isn't big. It's not enough to even pay the drivers. AND sitting and driving for so long is really tedious. They could have PILES!!! Do they have? well..Actually, I'm not sure how piles come about too..hahhaaa
There should be bus drivers' day!!! Is there? I wonder.....
4:47 PM
Saturday, November 15, 2008
Money can buy you happiness!!!
It's shown according to recent study that just by buying a small gift for someone else will bring you more happiness than if you were to buy something for yourself.So next time you're feeling down, take your friend out for drinks or a perhaps a meal?:)If you are happy and you know it... CLAP YOUR HANDS!!!..nah! just kidding...
Having positive psychology proves using your mind to make yourself happier is an actual science. So will yourself to think in a positive manner to kick start the day.
I was thinking we humans were built to think on stuff which are more negative.
For an example, my mum is one of them. She's a REAL PESSIMISTIC while my dad is OPTIMISTIC. SO they kinda balance out each other i guess?
To prevent things more getting worse as our brains are focus on negative thoughts, look for affirmations that you like and SAY THEM ALOUD=) yeah!!
Repeat them when u feel a tinge of negativity. You'll be amazed at the results!
OR surround yourself with HAPPY HAPPY things.Being surounded by objects of comfort allays your fears so negativity is the last thing on your mind=)
In the western countries people love expressing their emotions. I want to do that way too. But not many of the singaporeans are that open minded to criticism in the right way. Hmmm... and I wonder why people love saying typical singaporeans cause we're KIASU and SELF CENTERED or what?
THat's all folks....
God bless all of you in the week ahead.
4:20 PM
Friday, November 14, 2008
friendship
I know i haven't been blogging for a long while. Since those days that i started blogging and stopped, there were many changes in many of my friends that I've seen including me. Humans do change as they mature but some don't in fact they probably grow from bad to worse. Making their attitude worse than usual. I for one wish to live in the past and not present. Think only present not future, but i guess it's really time for me to think about the future.Recalling memories from the past were really pleasant. I had a qroup of girlfriends. We always hung out together, for well..., until now we still do but not not not very often at all.
When we do actually hung out. I guess I do know what to say to some of them. I go utterly silent. I do not talk at all. Cause I feel awkward or something? Probably. ok, some people might say that I'm angry or whatsoever. I'm not! really! So please don't go round assuming. Assumptions are all..well..simply just assumptions. LOL.. When I don't talk doesn't mean I'm anti-social or am I? Well, I guess it's all up to those people on what they think of me.
I know by standing tall, having self confidence and being self assured makes one a happy person? Correct a not? uh..should be!!! Must be confident ma...
Lastly... I just want to say I Love everyone of my friends! I don't believe in hating or disliking people anymore. All in thePAST PAST. When you hate someone, it drains you. You'll feel more tired and unhappy, petty and all.
I pray that few years down the road people will set away their differences and be friends again. This is some advice la. People be trustworthy. If you are people will in turn trust you. Gossiping is women's nature. I know.! But there's a limit on everything. Overdoing is probably spreading of rumours.
Friendship are meant to be treasured！
4:17 PM